If The Shoe Fits…

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We all love a gorgeous pair of shoes right? But when it comes to finding the perfect tootsie attire for your big day there’s so much more to think about than simply picking out a pretty pair of peep-toes. Considering you’ll be on your feet a good portion of the day and night, it takes an Academy Award Winning bride to smile rather than grimace over the pain of throbbing blisters *ouch* So before you dash into the nearest shoe boutique waving your credit card with excitement, take a few moments to contemplate what you desire before splashing the cash on those hot new heels…

Home or Away?

If (for example) you’re having a good old British winter wedding, you’ll probably want to scan the shelves for something a little more practical such as a cosy closed court or cute wedding boot. If on the other hand, you’re planning on jetting off into the sunset you’ll more than likely want to opt for something lighter such as sandals or flip-flops. However before you decide, double check where you’ll be getting married and what the terrain is. Sounds odd, but I’ve witnessed countless brides who have returned home with burnt and blistered feet due to the heat of the sand from beach weddings… not exactly the souvenir you hope to bring home!

How High?

My solid advice would be to wear what you’re normally comfortable with. If you’re often found dashing about in flats then spending an entire day in six inch stilettos might just leave you crawling on your hands and knees before you’ve even had a chance to cut the cake. Alternatively go with a kitten heel, which always gives a much better posture than flats. If indeed you’re a heel enthusiast, just keep in mind these two fundamentals: The height of your groom & the length of your dress. If your gown is scalloped or ornately edged it’s probably best to discuss bespoke length measurements with your bridal retailer to avoid potentially hefty alteration bills. Just ensure you stick to the heel height you were measured in when buying your shoes.

Matching Up:

If you’re trying to match the shade of ivory/white with your dress (and believe me there is A LOT of different shades out there) then you’re going to need a little swatch of gown material to take with you. Most bridal retailers will supply this on request, so you don’t have to stress about keeping the correct tone in your mind’s eye… which is literally impossible to do anyway. This little swatch will also come in handy for matching other items such as jewellery, hair accessories, invites, flowers etc. So if you can, ask for a few samples in case the original gets lost or is needed by one of your vendors.


Some brides prefer traditional bridal shoes to something a little off the wall in terms of colour or design, which is perfectly understandable – not all of us are fashion dare devils! If this sounds like you, I would highly recommend investing in a pair of wedding shoes from Rainbow Club who have a beautiful range of dyeable styles which are ideal for brides wanting to get the wear out of their shoes after the wedding. For those tempted to opt for something a little different, Irregular Choice shoes are incredibly popular amongst brides looking for something a little quirky and wildly unforgettable. Alternatively, for something more personal why not have your shoes hand painted? Check out the jaw-dropping designs by Figgie Shoes, possibly the most beautiful creations I’ve ever seen. It’s so darn hard to pick a favourite, her talent is amazing *swoon*

How beautiful are these designs by Figgie Shoes?

How beautiful are these designs by Figgie Shoes?


If like me, comfort is a top priority it’s probably better choosing a closed toe style that you can line with super-comfy/extra fluffy/beautifully bouncy insoles… and other foot-friendly paraphernalia that will ward off aches and pains for as long as possible! I also find wedges are much more comfortable than a stiletto heel, and surprisingly easy to walk in compared to balancing on a thinner heel. Above all, make sure you break those little beauties in by wearing them around the house as often as you can before the big day… I promise you, your feet will thank you for it.

Also ladies, don’t forget to treat yourself to a soothing pedicure that will help breakdown hard skin and calluses. If you suffer from verrucas or other fungal infections seek treatment ASAP to ensure nothing prevents you from feeling your best on the big day… you’ve a whole night of shuffling on that dance floor to look forward too!

Do you have any top tips when it comes to wearing heels or are you more of a play-it-safe in flats kinda gal? I’d love to read your thoughts, advice or views in the comments below…

Thanks for reading 🙂

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16 thoughts on “If The Shoe Fits…

    • lol I stumble in heels too hun – just I wish I could wear them more often but being 6ft I pretty much look and feel awkward in them. Yep, wedges work better for me… not a bad compromise eh?! 😀 K x


  1. I will say that even if you choose to go for the flats version that you should probably have a heel that’s about an inch tall. I thought my tailor was nuts when she said it made a difference, but I noticed that my wedding dress didn’t flow as gracefully in flat flats as it did when I was wearing half-inch to inch-heels. Turns out the folks who work with wedding dresses day in and day out may actually know what they’re talking about!



    • Absolutely – I always think even a small kitten heel makes all the difference in posture and gown placement. However a few of the brides I have worked with are always fearful of the discomfort a heel might bring… especially if they aren’t used with wearing them occasionally. I completely understand why you would think that of your tailor lol, but like you said an experienced one will really know their stuff 🙂 Thanks so much for reading & your feedback, greatly appreciated! Karen x


    • Awwwh, you’re so encouraging Nadine, chuffed to bits at such a lovely compliment 😀 I’d love to take all the credit but most of it I’ve picked up from countless other brides I’ve worked with who have passed on their pearls of wisdom. Apparently experience counts for something eh? hehe :L Hope you’re having a great day & that the studying is going well 🙂 Xx

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      • You can still take credit for it since it’s your memory housing their tips. 😉 Experience is golden. 😀 Thank you! I hope you are having a lovely day too. 🙂 xx


  2. I love that you used the picture of Manolo’s as your first image! They are my dream wedding shoe. I’m still not certain if I would want them in the blue or white though.

    Sheryl xx


    • Hi Sheryl thank you so much – they are such an iconic shoe! I know exactly what you mean, although I think I’d opt for the colour as I’s struggle to wear the white again 😦 But still it’s a touch decision – so glad I’m past it lol x


    • Hi Deborah, you’re so welcome! I spotted your designs a few months ago and instantly fell in love – they are beyond beautiful, you’ve such a unique talent! Thanks so much for the comment – delighted you liked the article 🙂 K xo


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